Before getting into this post, let me apologize for the break in items. I had a significant Fibro flare-up, and started a new job. Let’s just say my body has been overwhelmed. However, all of this had me thinking about how much to share with my employer about my Fibromyalgia.
Once I was offered the job, I asked about flexible hours. I told my employer that I have a chronic condition that flares up from time to time and mornings can be particularly hard. I lucked out that my new employer understands.
Figuring out what to tell bosses about chronic illnesses and when to do so is always a tough decision. While employers shouldn’t fire you because of an illness, that doesn’t mean they can’t find a way to do so.
Before making the decision to disclose your Fibromyalgia to an employer think about where your condition is at currently and what, if any limitations it causes. If it may inhibit essential job functions, wait until absolutely necessary to confide. Otherwise, it depends on your comfort level and the climate of your company. It can be helpful to ask around to see if coworkers have been in similar situations. Of course, this will have to be done delicately.
Here are a few tips for having the Fibromyalgia talk with your boss:
- Be positive. Talk more about your skills, qualifications and your ability to do your job. Reassuring your employer that your FM doesn’t affect your performance.
- Do not present your Fibro as a weakness
- Think about concerns he or she may have, and be prepared to provide information, strategies or solutions to each of those potential issues.
- Know what workplace accommodations you may need. It may help to look into the availability and funding programs that your employer can access to make these accommodations.
The University of Delaware offers a list of ideal times to disclose disabilities (or in our cases chronic illnesses) and guidelines on how to do so if electing to tell a potential employer on its Career Services center’s site.
Whatever you decide to do, know that you aren’t required to tell your employer about your Fibromyalgia. In my experience, doing so alleviates job stress and makes work life more comfortable.